Into the mountains we go!

 Into the mountains today! Woke up and thought hey why not take a 2 hour trip to the Wichita Mountains? Jimmy loves a great car ride! it was a nice breath of fresh air Literally! 

Looking out over the cliff, you are somewhat humbled. Things that seem so huge may seem at that time, just a bit smaller. I need to remember this feeling! When the stress of bills, money, life get to me I need to remember this feeling.

This was a fun day!! Buffalo and the prairie dogs, Long horns, and Deer were so nice to see out and about. Then we headed to Meers for a steak and burger! What a great adventure! 

When the day is done.

When the day is done, and the sun is gone.

Brush your teeth until they are clean!

A quick story and not to worry 

No monsters, no bugs, only lots of muscle hugs.

When drinks of water are all done.

 I feel like I won.

I head off to bed.

Feeling like I am the hero

by the time I hit the pillow. 

My brain goes to Zero.

I hear the door creek

and I see those tiny little feet.

He pulls and he tugs, and 

just wants one last hug.

He climbs and he sighs

as he lays by my side

and my eyes open wide. 

Potty time!

Okay Mommies out there.  I am raising a little boy who is very willful, and refuses to use the potty. I have tried many things. Sink the cheerio's, Favorite toy uses the potty, bribery with stickers, videos, books, and nothing is working.

My son the brilliant boy that he is, will go and take off his underpants and put on a Diaper. Logically solution QUIT BUYING DIAPERS right? lol well unless I want pee everywhere they are kind of a necessary evil.. going to pick him up this after work today and I will as of today 8/21/2015 STOP buying Diapers for him..

Looking at the rubber undies. This is not just an adjustment for him it is for myself and my husband as well. Before we didn't have to be so caught up on do you have to potty it just happened. change diaper case closed..

I will keep updated on how this goes.... To be continued  

Polo-ticks time.

Yesterday as I looked at my Facebook app it asked me what is on your mind? Well this is what was on my mind.

         "What would you do if someone gave you an extra $20000 maybe you would take a vacation or buy a new car, new clothes, or new appliances. Even if you used the money to pay off old bills, you then would have more to spend in the economy because you wouldn't have the interest payments. And when you buy more, you create demand, which means more people can be put to work-and the economy grows. Now think about what Example: Bill gates or the Waltons. What would they do with it or an extra 20 Million or more, as ol George W. did with his first tax cuts. Would they even notice? They would probably just send it along to Their accountant and forget all about it (which is exactly what they did with it by the way). The only thing that's going to grow is their bank accounts (which is what's happening). That's the difference between giving money to the rich and giving it to the people. When people in the lower and middle economic layers of society have increased income, all of society eventually gets richer because working people spending most of the incomes is the engine that creates economic demand for goods and services.  This is what has happened under 30 years of Reaganomics!  Repeal  Reaganomics  and  Citizens United! Corporations are not people. It made available for corporations and unions to spend unlimited amounts of money to advocate for or against political candidates. Sorry peeps that is what was on my mind!"-Thank You, Thom Hartman                 

Over the last 30+ years of Reaganomics! We have Monopolies, we have a handful of families in this country who hold most of America's wealth. We have corporations taking over our commons.... Parks, Prisons, Education.. and the list goes on. We have people cutting the bottoms off the ladders they themselves climbed to keep anyone else from coming up behind them. Repeal  Reaganomics  and  Citizens United! Corporations are NOT people! 
Elizabeth Warren talking about this issue: 

Anyone making less than 50K a year can understand this. Now I like to look at myself as very open minded person , but  the opposition of the progressive movement has not given me any type of proof or even an argument that this has not happened to the country, or a real plan to fix it. Wedge issues are not good enough. Income inequality is real, alot more real than Hillary Clinton email scandal.                    

Black Lives Matter...  Yes, all lives matter.. But that is not the point. Sandra Bland, Trayvon Martin, and countless others were not white, hispanic or asian. As a Police officers wife, I am biased, and I know this. I am not saying all police, or all departments are bad, and/or do this. In Fact, My husband is probably one of the most brave, professional, and unbiased police officers that may have ever existed.  I know a lot of great men and women who serve and who have died for the American people! They protect us and keep us safe. I will never know what it is like to walk in another ethnicity's shoes. Whether or not you feel this is or isn't an issue, seems to relate to how much empathy you may have for others. A large group in the United States says this is a real problem! I feel it is something that should be addressed, and talked about. I feel the Black lives matter holds more validity than most of the wedge issues you hear from any of the Republican candidates for presidents.       

Now for the Minimum Wage argument over raising the minimum wage. I feel that the creator of  the first minimum wage summed it up best:“No business which depends for existence on paying less than living wages to its workers has any right to continue in this country.” (1933, Statement on National Industrial Recovery Act)“By living wages, I mean more than a bare subsistence level — I mean the wages of a decent living.” (1933, Statement on National Industrial Recovery Act)"Do not let any calamity-howling executive with an income of $1,000 a day, who has been turning his employees over to the Government relief rolls in order to preserve his company’s undistributed reserves, tell you – using his stockholders’ money to pay the postage for his personal opinions — tell you that a wage of $11.00 a week is going to have a disastrous effect on all American industry.” (1938, Fireside Chat, the night before signing the Fair Labor Standards Act that instituted the federal minimum wage)"All but the hopelessly reactionary will agree that to conserve our primary resources of manpower, government must have some control over maximum hours, minimum wages, the evil of child labor and the exploitation of unorganized labor.” (1937, Message to Congress upon introduction of the Fair Labor Standards Act)

I find it very sad that 77 years later this is still a real issue, and after 30 years of reaganomics we have reverted right back to the 30's. Which was one of the most unregulated and unequal times in America. 
I understand there will be people who do not agree with me on these issues. And that is okay! This world would be very dim and colorless, if everyone agreed on everything. But this is my blog and these are my thoughts and feelings. As Thom Hartman would say, "Politics is not a spectator sport, get active get involved. TAG YOU ARE IT!" Without everyone doing their part our Democracy,  it does not work the way it should. I am not endorsing any candidate as of yet Bernie Sanders lol, but I don't care who you vote for, as long as you VOTE!  Dig, and actually research what they do vote on. What policies do they support and write? Hold the elected officials to what they do!!! Not to what they just say! You can dispute and change words. The actions they do are not so easily changed. 

Time to Go!

                 So yesterday, taking my Son out for dinner. Everything was going perfect. We went through the store, and did the shopping we were there to do... and then "Hello, Its Mr. Nasty." While sitting in a Moore, restaurant my Son decided that he was not going to eat anymore, and he was done. Throwing food, a plate and even slapping me when confronting his poor behavior. After turning him to face the wall for 3 min while I paid the check, I know the people beside me were appalled I didn't lay slap down on him right there at the table. But, to be fair what goes on in my head is it totally that. But my actual reaction, the adult mother trying to teach her son not to hit, hitting him seems somewhat counter productive...That being said, not riding the train and taking Nightmare before Christmas away for the night, and a earlier than usual bed time seemed to do the trick!

                 In a world where you see so many spoiled, little brat children you never believe that they would be your's on any given day. So I say it is Time to go home! My son is not undisciplined. He did not do the normal terrible 2's I guess I got it at 3's. Testing limits and boundaries, I have to keep keeping on, I know consistency is key!   

Fall is in the air

Starting the cooler weather here in the hot Oklahoma summer. Thoughts of Pumpkins, and wreaths flow through my brain as I am driving on my lunch hour. What I want nothing more, than to go home and get last nights mess cleaned up. Cuddle up with a good show on Netflix and a Pumpkin Spice Latte. (soft blanket optional) Alass this not permanent weather this is just a facade of a fall afternoon. But hey, I'll pick up my son today, and head to get Juice. I'll take my reusable bag from where-ever, my little part of not adding to the collection of plastic in our landfills. Then head home maybe make acorn squash for dinner along with some sauteed spinach. 

1 Acorn Squash- Will feed you and a 3 year old

1 Acorn Squash 
Salt and pepper to taste
4 Tablespoons of butter
 (Optional) 4 tablespoons Agave nectar/Syrup   

Using a sharp, chef's knife, carefully cut the acorn squash in half, from stem to tip. The squash can rock back and forth, so be careful as you are cutting it.

Use a spoon to scrape out the seeds and stringy bits inside each squash half, until the inside is smooth.

Take a knife and score the insides of the acorn squash halves in a cross-hatch pattern, about a half-inch deep cuts.

Place the squash halves cut side up in a roasting pan. Pour 1/4-inch of water over the bottom of the pan so that the squash doesn't burn or get dried out in the oven.
Bake for about an hour to an hour 15 minutes, until the tops of the squash halves are nicely browned, and the squash flesh is very soft and cooked through. It's hard to overcook squash, it just gets better with more caramelization. But don't undercook it. bake at 425.

I got the photo from http://www.simplyrecipes.com/recipes/classic_baked_acorn_squash/ and this is not their recipe, but doesn't this look FABULOUS? 


Sauteed spinach:

In a frying pan or large skillet take 

2 tablespoons of butter or olive oil 
1/2 teaspoon Garlic Powder
if you have left over bacon (optional)
1/2 teaspoon Minced onions or onion powder
Salt/ pepper to taste.

Add 3 Good handfuls of leafy fresh spinach it will cook down to nothing add more if you need more, but I am cooking for just me, and the little guy tonight. 

Being an only child, and aging parents.

              So a while back I learned that after years and years of smoking my father has COPD. For the first time I really contemplated my parents mortality, and what that would mean for me.Then last year the worst of the worst happened. My Dad had a heartattack. Something that no matter how you look at it, you never see it coming. Dad was always fried. In fact, it was somewhat of a running joke with my Dad. Dip it in batter and salt it, and that is Dad. My Father is a very petite person standing at maybe 5'6 and less than 120LBS. He did a very labor intense job.

                         Dad was lucky, it was as the Dr. described to my Mother and I, "Not one of the bad ones". After a year now, my Father has been on all sorts of medications. He has also since then, been pushed into early retirement. The company he had sacrificed 30+ years of his life to, many family moments, and holidays for; left him with less of  the "golden parachute" my Father deserved.  Not enough to make till 65. My Father is left having to come up with something to do, to not have to run through his life savings and actual retirement.

                         I have never seen my Father scared. He has always been of the opinion, "They can't eat you", but for the first time, I saw my Father very scared. He tried to hide it. But the more you know someone, the more you can tell what they are trying to hide, by how they are trying to hide it. Now with that being said, with all the uncertainty there is one thing I am certain about. My Father could no longer work in the line of work he was in. The options for my Father are very limited. Although my Father was a great provider for my mother and I. Making sure I always had food in my belly, and a roof over my head. I always had the best, Dads days of providing for his family with manual labor are over. Anyone really to be honest. Those jobs are few and far between.

                       So a catch up to today. I just got back Sunday, after a very quick trip 400+ miles from Oklahoma City to Houston to see my Mother and Father. They were very surprised to see us, and  my Son and I had a wonderful time. Arriving at 11:30 Friday night, Saturday morning was spent driving into downtown Houston, to see a new trailer my Father is  having built. Looks like Dad is not done yet. He is going to be an Entrepreneur!  So cross your fingers and say a prayer. I will reveal the name of his new business when we have a name set.